• Raxiel@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    What? No, we might not tip our petrol station attendants or barmaids, but it’s still been normal to tip table service for at least 30 years.

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      1 year ago

      It’s more normal in fancy places, or where you genuinely want to thank a server for above and beyond service. But it’s not expected, you’re not rude for not doing it, and you don’t do it for just any old outting.

      I’ll tip a bartender who mixes me a drink with 3+ ingredients that’s not on their drink list, I’ll tip the server who painstakingly reviews the menu with our table to make sure we don’t have issues with allergies, I’ll tip the barista who rushes over with a cloth to help me after I accidentally knocked over my whole coffee who tried to make me a second coffee on the house. Because that’s excellent service and tipping is just an excellent way of saying thank you.

      But those are exceptions to the rule.

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        1 year ago

        Yea, I meant we don’t tip in Britain as a matter of course but sure if I’ve received excellent service I might. I am a bit of a tight-arse though, not going to lie, so it’s rare.

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      1 year ago

      No, no it isn’t.

      Tipping still happens rarely, and only as a bonus for excellent service. Nobody expects you to tip. So in >80% of the time you don’t.

      • Raxiel@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Rubbish, I’m not even from a well off background or from that London but it’s been a thing my entire life that it’s normal to leave a ~10% tip for good (not even exceptional) wait service.

        I will clarify that I’m talking about full service, not the McDonald’s counter, or even placing (and paying for) your food at the bar and them bringing it to you.

        I knew one couple who never tipped, and they get get grief from their own kids for being cheap.

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      1 year ago

      Not sure why you’re being downvoted. While we typically don’t tip, you can go to most food places with table service and gratuity is either automatically added, or is an option when you pay.

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        1 year ago

        It’s definitely appearing as an option more on the pos terminals now that most people prefer to pay contactless rather than cash. I’ve only had one occasion where the gratuity was automatically added (ironically, on an occasion I would not tip because the service negatively impacted my meal and I had to strike it out) perhaps I’ve just been lucky.