I know that is up to me, and there was a time in which I thought that liking women made me lesbian. But after finding out about trixic, I got the trixic label. Now I don’t know what I can be, what should I be? What if I don’t want to have any label or identity? As in, “I just like women”.
I’m ace, but I stopped giving myself labels on my sexuality a while back. They just get confusing sometimes, because people never fit into our boxes. We can’t even fit ourselves in our own boxes.
Something that might fit as a label is “sapphic” or “saphe”. I’ve heard feminine presenting NB use it to describe themselves before. Of course I don’t know how you present or anything like that, so no disrespect if you present androgynous or masc
I’ve went from thinking I was bi, to pan, to ace then demi to now having no clue and using no label.
Exactly! When I start contemplating labels, I usually end up on the conclusion that I’m me, whatever someone else might call it. Sexuality can change over time, and doesn’t fit neatly at any point. In college I thought I was straight, until I got a crush on a guy. I still don’t know what exactly to call that. I just know that I’m me, and I’ll probably never make complete sense of my feelings