• Tattorack@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Please be sarcasm… Please be sarcasm… Oh I pray to the dark void of the universe that this is sarcasm.

    • KptnAutismus@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      it absolutely is, take it from an autistic person.

      (autstic people often don’t recognize or can’t properly replicate sarcasm, which is why i often use /s)

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        11 months ago

        Yeah, but I’ve also met several (Americans, usually) who had takes like these and… Uh… Unfortunately meant it.

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        11 months ago

        To some extent this can be mitigated by therapy. I’m serious.

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            9 months ago

            Therapy is about leaving people more “how they are” than before. It’s not about making them behave according to expectations.

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              9 months ago

              I know very well what therapy is about. Decades of experience. Being an autistic person and working through a life of internalized ableism and discrimination works wonders for recognizing it. Not being able to understand sarcasm or other subtext is no problem for me, it is a problem for my surroundings so they can go to therapy for it. I go to therapy to learn to not accept being ousted for being different.

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                9 months ago

                Well, for me it’s only 2 months of experience, being 28.

                I go to therapy to learn to not accept being ousted for being different.

                That’s right too.

                EDIT: I meant - when you are not permanently suppressed by the things which you don’t need, like trying to not be yourself, you may have easier time understanding sarcasm and subtexts too.