So much me it’s insane… If I do something well it’s just “it was easy, if I can do it literally anyone can.” If I drop a pencil then I’m literally worse than Hitler…
Kinda related, but it’s why I HATE PvP games. If I beat you it doesn’t do anything for me, but if you beat me it’s because I’m bad and should feel bad about being terrible. It’s all downside.
You see others who know things and have skills you don’t, and think about how remarkable they are. But what makes you remarkable doesn’t seem like anything special to you, because you only have your own perspective from which to see yourself.
And this only gets worse as you learn and expose yourself to more. You begin to understand just how much you don’t understand.
Meanwhile those who close themselves off from knowledge and learning think they understand things better than they do, so they’re overconfident in their knowledge.
Thanks to your comment I finally understood, why I always had an aversion to competitive games. No joy in winning/destroying another, so much frustration when I lose.
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So much me it’s insane… If I do something well it’s just “it was easy, if I can do it literally anyone can.” If I drop a pencil then I’m literally worse than Hitler…
Kinda related, but it’s why I HATE PvP games. If I beat you it doesn’t do anything for me, but if you beat me it’s because I’m bad and should feel bad about being terrible. It’s all downside.
Many people have more expertise than they know.
You see others who know things and have skills you don’t, and think about how remarkable they are. But what makes you remarkable doesn’t seem like anything special to you, because you only have your own perspective from which to see yourself.
And this only gets worse as you learn and expose yourself to more. You begin to understand just how much you don’t understand.
Meanwhile those who close themselves off from knowledge and learning think they understand things better than they do, so they’re overconfident in their knowledge.
They say that intelligent people tend to recognize their shortcomings more easily than those that aren’t as intelligent/introspective.
I’m still not sure if that means I’m somewhat intelligent or just have a lot of shortcomings lol
Thanks to your comment I finally understood, why I always had an aversion to competitive games. No joy in winning/destroying another, so much frustration when I lose.