It’s ok to feel concern or be worried if a man passes. In the end, we ARE the violent ones in tendency. What matters is ones own safety. As long as one is able and willing to look behind his/her prejudice ( i dislike the negative connotations this word has) there is no harm done at all. That’s the tiny but important difference between being careful and a sexist 😉

And there rarely is a way out of abuse. It will always be there 😕