• Annoyed_🦀
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    11
    arrow-down
    6
    ·
    3 days ago

    “my culture is not your prom dress” moment.

      • Annoyed_🦀
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        6
        ·
        3 days ago

        Funny that i’m chinese and living in asia as well and i support that. Western folks have a weird sense of justice that they want to protect everyone, to a point i feels like they’re seeing us as a lesser kind that need protection.

        • pivot_root@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          4
          ·
          edit-2
          3 days ago

          to a point i feels like they’re seeing us as a lesser kind that need protection.

          I think you hit the nail right on the head with that observation.

          Speaking in accordance with someone’s wishes when they’re not around to advocate for themselves in a private conversation is fine. Someone publicly speaking on behalf of an entire demographic that they know little to nothing about is bigoted as hell. It shows a complete lack of respect by assuming they know what’s best for others without actually taking the time to learn about their values and culture. And it’s super condescending, treating people of the demographic as if they lacked the capacity and autonomy to speak up for themselves.

          • Annoyed_🦀
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            4
            ·
            3 days ago

            One thing to note that the one who accused the girl for cultural appropriation is chinese themselves, but even then, who are they to gatekeep our culture?

      • andros_rex@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        6
        ·
        3 days ago

        I think discussions on the qipao are more concerned with it be sexualized/treated as a fetish costume. It’s formal wear.