Well, between two sides picking different ways to do eye contact and tone to use there’s no reason to call one way and one tone wrong and another correct. Same about wanting or not wanting to do anything. So the author of that list, if sincere, is not “allistic”, just assholeistic.

Also - I personally question someone’s authority only when it’s correct in the ongoing argument.

However, I usually ignore any authority I consider invalid. That’s not the same as “questioning”, as I’m not doing that demonstrably, that is, socially, just don’t let it in onto my personal territory, speaking figuratively. And thus is not someone else’s concern.