i hope he’s changed! and i’m glad people being shitty to trans women using femboys as a cudgel no longer have such a high profile tool to use! but i need people to understand this

  • machiabelly [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    7 months ago

    I’m genuinely disgusted by that. I’m almost more angry about that. F1n spent all that time making money off of being “just a guy” who looked more feminine than most tgirls do on HRT. Being “just a guy” who was prettier than your girlfriend, while on HRT???

    Imagine being a beauty influencer who makes their whole shtick about loving your natural self while hiding the work they’ve had done.

    'Cause the trap ideology thing is somewhat explainable by being egged on by chat and dealing with complex internal identity shit while having no real trans community irl. Doesn’t change the responsbility that comes with having a platform but we also don’t live in a society that acknowledges that that kind of responsibility even exists.

    I’m 4 years HRT and 2 years post FFS and he’s prettier than me with a more feminine face. Considering how insecure I am it hurt that a cis guy could do that just for fun and leave me in the dust. That kind of direct lying is not appreciated.