I made a therapy appointment
First step to feeling better! It’s a tough one.
Proud of you. <3
That’s big!
Good work! Keep going bravely.
Oh yes! Awesome my friend.
Tl;dr: I asked a girl out :)
I met a girl in a flight and thought we got along well, but she was only in a layover flight while I was in the last flight of my trip. Still, we kept in touch, and she’s apparently coming to my city for a few days in two weeks.
So I did something I had never done before (even though I’ve been in a few relationships before) and asked her out! She said “maybe” (her trip was already planned and she is busy and staying with some friends, she seemed genuinely sorry) so in two weeks I may have a date :)
Hot damn good for you!
Keep us updated! I don’t think lemmy has a remindme bot but I’m saving this comment.
Beep boop. I’m writing this comment because you asked to be updated on my date.
She canceled it :(. She was only here for a few days and ended up not being available to meet with me. It’s ok, I think I read more into it than I should have!
Michael Scott once quoted some guy that said “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
You shot your shot. That’s the important thing.
Good for you!
I tip my hat to you!
Well there’s gotta be a reason she’s keeping in touch after meeting you once on a flight. I don’t still talk to someone I met on a plane, so you must’ve made an impression. I hope it pans out for you (and her).
It’s a public holiday today in South Africa. (Good Friday)
So I came up with a cheeky dad joke
“What holiday is it? Workers day? Freedom day?”
“Good Friday”
“Every Friday is a good Friday”
I got two chuckles
Now you have three.
Lol Then there were four
To whoever downvoted this: you suck.
I got some chickens.
You can’t just say you got some chickens and not show the chickens
They’re sleeping, I will pay the tax tomorrow morning.
Chicken tax!
Someone please tag me if they post the chickens!
See above, I will pay the Iron Price.
Mans gotta pay the chicken tax, please show us the chickens 🐔🙏
Where the chickens at ?
I finally progressed to 4 reps of 45kg dumbbell overhead press.
That wild. I can’t even do 4 reps of 45kg barbell overhead press. Then again I am quite a small person. I only weigh 57kg.
Yeah thats the flip side. I am a very heavy dude and it ain’t all muscle that’s for sure but I’m slowly working towards my goals.
Awesome, congrats!
Remember, form, form, FORM. Please make sure you research thoroughly and/or get a pro consult on proper form. Great tip I got once is to think of each movement as “practicing the move,” getting really good at doing each exercise while maintaining perfect form.
Older you will thank younger you for every moment spent on alignment, balance, weight distribution, etc. and building a foundation that lasts you a lifetime!
I fixed my refrigerator. 2 months ago I was changing the filter, and I was too lazy to turn off the water first, so the pressure was too high and it didn’t seat properly. When I turned it, I broke the filter receptacle. I called Samsung, and they said they’ll fix it, but they can’t tell me how much it will cost until they make the work order, and at that point I can’t cancel it if it’s too expensive. I asked if they could ballpark, like $100 or $1000. They said they couldn’t. So I told them to go fuck themselves. I ordered the part on Amazon for $60. I had to disassemble a decent amount of the refrigerator to get to the part. But I did it! I swapped out the part and everything works perfectly. All in all, it took about 2 hours. There were multiple videos on the internet on how to do it.
Fuck Samsung.
I’m never buying a Samsung appliance again for other reasons but I’ll add this to the list. Great work, hope they go bankrupt since they certainly won’t quit being little shits.
I don’t recommend LG either. Mine is on at least its third compressor and it’s less than 8 years old. And I know two other people who have had the same experience… and I only know like five people.
I fixed a boot issue from the grub command line for the first time.
Restarted my show / podcast yesterday, 1 year after losing my co-host (and best friend) to cancer. Moving forward, without forgetting him.
Some would see this as a big step. It’s one of the hundreds of things that I’ve been doing to move forward…
Thank you for restarting, in spite of grief and bad times. So many good podcasts end abruptly with no explanation and you always wonder what happened. It must be hard to start again. Much respect
Thanks for your message! It wasn’t much a mystery as he stopped joining me in the show when undergoing treatment and people knew. We got a lot of love from the fans.
Good, what is the name of your podcast?
It’s called Go Pyrate. It’s in québécois French.
Obligatory: Fuck cancer!
Also, sorry for your loss.
This week has been rough for me. My nervous system is fucked up for various reasons.
Normally I drink one cup of coffee per day. But I had an Uber passenger whom I took to his job at a convenience store. He said “Can I offer you some coffee?” so I came in and grabbed a cup (my second for the day).
That was Monday evening.
I was then awake until wednesday night. I could not catch a fucking wink of sleep for that whole time.
What the fuck, brain??
Well, Tuesday and Wednesday I obviously didn’t drive, because I’m not going to put my passengers in that situation, of having a sleep deprived Uber driver.
Finally Wednesday I realized how I could knock myself out. I cooked a big thing of pasta and ate a ton of it, and sure enough having a big meal knocked me out.
Fucked up, but I’m proud that (a) I didn’t risk my passengers’ safety by giving in to the temptation to drive (I really need the money so it was tempting), and (b) found a way to fall asleep finally.
I know this story doesn’t make sense. I really wish the way my brain worked made sense. It would make life so much easier.
I struggle with insomnia due to bipolar. This sort of reaction seems familiar and atypical. If it happens again, maybe see someone. Good on you for staying safe.
I published the first chapter of a fanfiction and someone already liked it.
Which genre?
A post apocalyptic adventure with political drama.
I purchased a new (to me) car the other day. Despite my age, this is the first time I’ve done this all on my own and I’m geeked over my credit score. ☺️
Congrats!
You’ve accomplished something that I haven’t. I’ve been an adult for a while and haven’t made a purchase of this size without some assistance. Way to go!
I love it when they tell you your credit score.
I’ve got a 5(A) on my math(algebra+geometry) exam. Before that I’ve always had a 4(B). I’m very proud of myself :)
I helped a stranger at Costco load up a giant grill into his truck. I have no idea how he would have managed it on his own.
I planted some baby trees in my previously barren yard! The maples are already starting to leaf, and since I’ve never planted a hickory before I’m going to fret over it until it leafs and proves to me that I didn’t somehow manage to kill it
That’s super exciting! Any plans for other plants?
Tentatively. I really want to have a full food forrest eventually, but I’m trying to to take it slow and start with establishing the bigger plants, then play it by ear from there.
What hardiness zone are you in, and have you ever had a paw paw fruit, by any chance? Because if it grows in your area, I highly recommend it. It’s the most tropical-tasting native Midwest fruit I’ve ever had.
Interesting you say that! I’m in 7b (recently reclassified from 6a) and I actually did plant some pawpaw seeds! Still waiting to see if they’ll sprout though - they had a bit of mould growth after taking them out from cold stratification so I’m hoping at least a couple survived.
Ooh, crossing my fingers for you! 🤞🏽🤞🏽
(disabled in a weird way from thoracic spinal damage) No matter how impossible it seems, every time I have something take me off my physical therapy routine of mostly riding a bike every day, I drag myself back out and force myself to hold a minimum fitness level at any cost.
I got sick and a week and a half of inactivity has me at 3 days on the bike in the last 6, and I’m back to 16 miles, 2 days ago. I’m about to leave for 26.
After over 10 years of spending almost all day, every day, in bed laying very reclined, riding a bike is my only real physical activity. This is a strange state to exist in long term. I atrophy extremely quickly, probably because I was in race shape when I was disabled. While I am no longer at that level, I never lost my legs, very low resting heart rate, or lung capacity.
It hurts so bad each time I struggle back to ~30 miles daily. I can’t do anything else at the same time, and take Tylenol at max doses for little relief. I can’t even manage to read much or cook right now. However, I think I’m already over the hump for this one. I slept 4.5 hours last night compared to ~3.5 the nights before.
Right now I’m procrastinating. It feels impossible, like there is no way I should be going out and riding a bike, but I’m going to put down this phone, kit up, and make myself coast down the hill; mentally picking one little target after another; lying to myself dozens of times about how far I must go before I can just turn around and go home.
