• Da Bald Eagul@feddit.nl
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    5 hours ago

    Not OP but personally I wouldn’t necessarily need or want to know what my dad is getting off to and when. With close friends it’s different, we do have some fairly open conversations about what we (don’t) like, but we also do not announce to each other “hey btw, I’m gonna jack off now!!”

    • TurtleSoup
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      4 hours ago

      Guess it just depends on the audience. When I was deployed and the power went out for 4 hours we (about a dozen of us) had a several hour long debate on who the most talented porn star was. For some that’s not a weird conversation, for others… Yea they probably think we’re insane.

    • j4k3@lemmy.world
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      4 hours ago

      At one of the bike shops I worked at we had small penis contests; biggest cock bought the crew lunch… roadies are weird.

      I’d rather anyone tie a necktie on a door handle versus not; friends, folks, sister, solo, gang, whatever. Sex is normal behavior for all humans and should not be made awkward or taboo. It is unhealthy to the individual and society to make sex inaccessible or unspeakable. Every human masturbates with very few exceptions. It has nothing to do with relationships. Releasing tension is healthy and normal. Talking openly about sex is beneficial to society in many ways.