i hope he’s changed! and i’m glad people being shitty to trans women using femboys as a cudgel no longer have such a high profile tool to use! but i need people to understand this

    • Cromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netOPMEnglish
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      4 months ago

      whatever journey you took to self discovery is a good one. just because wikihow did an article playing into transphobic tropes does not make you bad for finding something in it

      i knew a trans woman whose egg cracked when she watched silence of the lambs and saw herself in buffalo bill, your wikihow article is totally fine

      • silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netMEnglish
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        4 months ago

        I mean, I realized I was trans after the news aired a really transphobic piece about some athlete (I think it was drag racing?) getting a sex change, when I was a kid. sometimes you just need to hear that being trans is an option and you don’t hear anything else. but like that and my dad’s general queerphobia convinced me to repress rather than come out then, so it does have consequences.