Nah, people exaggerate how bad it is imo, the admin and most of the posters are pretty cool but there’s a small minority of incredibly online pick mes who’ll bend over backwards to defend chasers and "I’m not transphobic but…"s who poison the whole experience. I’ve bashed heads with a few of them and been called “chaserphobic” and a “cisphobic misandrist” because of it but yeah, most of the instance is pretty ok.
Nah, people exaggerate how bad it is imo, the admin and most of the posters are pretty cool but there’s a small minority of incredibly online pick mes who’ll bend over backwards to defend chasers and "I’m not transphobic but…"s who poison the whole experience. I’ve bashed heads with a few of them and been called “chaserphobic” and a “cisphobic misandrist” because of it but yeah, most of the instance is pretty ok.
I’m a cis dude and if I got hit by any of these labels I’d wear them as a medal of honor.