My parents, who I’m not out to and who I was staying with before. Tbh, I’ve been trading my freedom of expression for free rent for like a year and it’s sucked and it’s worsened my executive dysfunction to where I struggle to change my situation. I was finally able to get myself together today so I came out in part because it’d help me be less prone to escapism.
I might be able to couchsurf. Idk. He’s not kicking me out immediately, at least.
well that’s something! I am stupidly lucky to have a solid job and my own place, but its also a bit of a prison in its own way (for one thing I can never be out at work more than likely, boss is a chud). Definitely relate to ever-worsening executive dysfunction issues :(
Hope you can find a way to live authentically and find a stable situation soon
That’s where I was before, but then my landlord sold the place and I was sick of my job anyway and I missed some of my friends back home. Instantly regretted it once I actually moved in.
I wish it had gone better for you 😭. Hopefully the first reaction to the information is worse than what’s to come, especially once he has time to think about how he’s acted.
I’m coming out to my brother (who I’m staying with) tonight and I have no idea how it’s gonna go. Wish me luck.
It went ✨poorly✨
He didn’t scream at me or anything but he did ask me to leave once I can make arrangements.
Ah fuck.
Do you have someplace else to go?
My parents, who I’m not out to and who I was staying with before. Tbh, I’ve been trading my freedom of expression for free rent for like a year and it’s sucked and it’s worsened my executive dysfunction to where I struggle to change my situation. I was finally able to get myself together today so I came out in part because it’d help me be less prone to escapism.
I might be able to couchsurf. Idk. He’s not kicking me out immediately, at least.
well that’s something! I am stupidly lucky to have a solid job and my own place, but its also a bit of a prison in its own way (for one thing I can never be out at work more than likely, boss is a chud). Definitely relate to ever-worsening executive dysfunction issues :(
Hope you can find a way to live authentically and find a stable situation soon
That’s where I was before, but then my landlord sold the place and I was sick of my job anyway and I missed some of my friends back home. Instantly regretted it once I actually moved in.
damn. Thankfully I didn’t have to leave town or anything to get out and most of my friends are still in the area.
But if you did it once you can do it again if needed so that’s at least less daunting?
I wish it had gone better for you 😭. Hopefully the first reaction to the information is worse than what’s to come, especially once he has time to think about how he’s acted.
good luck!!