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  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    7 months ago

    But they’ll think it. And they’ll say it behind my back. One of them is in my own family 😔 and I don’t think they’ll get any real push back. And I like (most) of my family :ooooooooooooooh:

    I don’t know. I’m sure he’s helped trans people before, but he has made a comment I’m a little worried about (basically saying that a lot of people bring up maybe being lgbt and then don’t bring it up again [context was me telling someone I was ace, then realizing I wasn’t and depression sucks ass so bad]) but maybe I’m over thinking it like usual. Plus he’s going to push for me to say things to my family (who I still live with), and I’m not ready :boohoo: I don’t know I’m so confused :meow-confused: (?)

    • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      7 months ago

      Okay yeah, maybe you should not like portions of your family if they are like that. We used to kill people with hammers for saying shit like that! They should get pushback, fuck em! You can’t tell what people are thinking though, and uh I dunno, you can’t really tell what people say behind your back either. I’m certain people have talked shit about me, and Idk ask me do I give a fuck.

      It’s pretty bad of a therapist to do that, like he should prioritise your comfort above all else imo, but I guess he can’t force you at least. If they don’t bring it up again, Mr Therapist, maybe it’s because they feel awkward about it…

      You were probably lookin for ohnoes ! I might still recommend talking with your therapist about it, maybe with the caveat up front that you’ll be talking to your relatives about it solely on your terms?