She has her in profile she’s gay and taken and she still has weirdo creepy lurkers on that sub dming her and trying to hit on her.

Like one time a dude messaged her 'What’s up? I’m 6’1." Trying to dick wave like she’d be impressed

Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?

Pretty gross lurking as a creeper dude in a place where people go looking for advice about their body.

  • GaveUp [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    24·
    3 months ago

    Finding out there’s a big boobs problem sub is pretty funny

    I’m assuming the issues there are a lot more real like back pain than the big dick problems where it’s just a bunch of sad men bragging about their supposedly big dick?

    • Othello [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
      15·
      3 months ago

      idk there are probably real issues the actual big dick havers have, maybe idk. also finding a bra that actually fits is a Sisyphean task. my aunt can only wear special-ordered bras. I’ve yet to find a sports bra I can run in without pain. i think i tore the cartilage in my ribs falling down the stairs a few years ago and now if if my tits swing around too vigorously sometimes i think it retears and it hurts to breath all over again for a few days and i gotta sleep in a sports bra. im gonna go to the doctor when i have insurance next year,

        • Othello [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
          9·
          3 months ago

          Thanks, I should have health insurance again after I get married this year, and at some point, I want to get these suckers massively reduced/ off So that will be nice.

          • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
            8·
            3 months ago

            Not a problem! I can’t imagine having something that irritates me attached to my body.

            I also had an ex with a larger bust in high school. I remember she’d tell me about the creepy boomer aged dudes staring at her anytime she went out to stores and shit. I’m sure you’re tired of the creeps as well

            • Othello [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
              6·
              3 months ago

              oh yeah, its nonstop, its funny though, the stares have increased over time, but they approach me far less, so maybe ive mastered looking intimidating! also ive lost like 30 something pounds from like 2 years ago, and i changed my bc, so they are significantly smaller, thank goodness. still too big for a binder though, just looks like a giant uniboob.

    • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
      12·
      3 months ago

      Yeah, she just has had problems finding finding bras and shit since middle school. I’m sure it’s one of those cathartic places to post where people all have a similar issue.

      Kind of like this place and myself. If I have a question you guys always answer me fairly quickly and compassionately.

      Either way I remember dudes being creepy in high school as well. Got into a couple fist fights over it.

      So it goes I suppose, you stick up for your siblings.

      • Pili [any, any]@hexbear.netEnglish
        19·
        3 months ago

        being painful for some people to have sex with you

        This is the only actual problem I believe. You know you have to keep the intercourse short otherwise it will be painful. You can always finish it off without penetration of course so it’s not a huge problem, but it still hurts intimacy quite a bit.

        Other than that:

        • The penis can touch inside the toilet bowl when you sit on it, which isn’t great hygienically.
        • And if you go to the swimming pool with your class as a kid, your classmates will laugh at your bulge.

        So nothing actually disabling unlike big boobs problems, just some annoyance and being limited in certain sexual practices. I’ve never heard of someone getting dick reduction surgery to fix their pain so it can’t be that problematic.

        • UrsineApathy [any, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
          22·
          3 months ago

          This is all mostly true in my experiences. The sexual aspects being the most impactful and otherwise just being careful about how you dress, which is more of a slight inconvenience sometimes than an actual problem, but there are others.

          • There’s no such thing as a quickie because of how much warmup is required and then once you’re down to business chafing becomes a serious issue very quickly if you’re not careful.
          • Most alternative sexual acts to PIV(and even that) are out of the question or difficult and unsatisfying with some women.
          • You can’t use standard condoms without risking breakage and need to use very expensive brands or custom order them(and they still don’t fit right).
          • Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.
          • Wearing good underwear is required otherwise nothing is left to the imagination. For example, I generally can’t wear sweatpants or swimwear in polite company without taking extra precautions. In a similar vein tight clothes also present a similar issue and are more uncomfortable.
          • A lot of people don’t realize the self esteem issues that usually come along with it. It sucks to literally have an otherwise great relationship ruined because you physically cannot have sex with a partner.
          • A lot of men end up with weird dysmorphia issues. You don’t even realize it’s an issue until you’re well into adulthood because porn has ruined people’s expectations. If you’re not 12 inches long, you’re not big. I didn’t even realize the extent of the problems it caused until I was in my late 20’s because until that point I actually thought I was small…
          • You will never receive any sympathy for any of these issues and talking about it will get you laughed at in most circles.
          • Pili [any, any]@hexbear.netEnglish
            2·
            3 months ago

            Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.

            Hmmm this point is interesting because I had some issues with that too so I looked it up, and it seems that there is absolutely no correlation between penis size and ED. But I imagine there is probably some unnoticed anxiety due to a fear of potentially hurting our partner, if that happened to us in the past.

      • RyanGosling [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
        10·
        3 months ago

        One common complaint among sex workers is that guys with big dicks won’t listen or won’t believe them when they say it hurts because the guys just want to imitate what they see in porn