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  • magi [null/void]@hexbear.netM
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    2 months ago

    Can take being yourself to figure out, and if you are still ace it may help you figure out what kind of ace you are.

    I’ve always been ace myself.

    • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]@hexbear.net
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      2 months ago

      what kind of ace you are.

      i so so so want to go down this tunnel … despite wanting to learn all the other stuff too … are there different kinds of ace? i have a really weird relationship to sex/romance but i think the conversations here about vampire kissing simulator have made me really curious about it

      • magi [null/void]@hexbear.netM
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        There’s numerous ace-spec identities think of it like the autism spectrum. Some are more common, like asexual, demisexual, and greysexual, and can stand on their own as identities, other’s are microlabels or identities that fall under the umbrella but cannot stand on their own and must be used in addition to another ace-spec label.

        here is the pie chart

        There’s also a wiki which should help somewhat