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  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    16·
    4 days ago

    CW: Transphobia and sexism:

    spoiler

    One of my professors can barely contain how bitter he is about having to curb his transphobia and sexism “We’re going to do a goodness of fit test on which gender shops more, sorry if that’s sexist. I’ve had to deal with a lot of talks about this before so I just want to make sure no one is offended” and then later “We’re talking about biological sex by the way, I’m just going to say that because you have to be so careful these days.” It’s such a cowardly way to signal your contempt. Like seriously, grow the fuck up and be professional. It’s not hard to not be a bigoted fuck.

    Funny enough it’s always math related professors that are the worst with this, any classes related to biology seem to have way less bigoted stemlords teaching them.

  • Yukiko [she/her]@hexbear.netMEnglish
    13·
    4 days ago

    They removed the ability to change your sex with the Social Security Administration. Not entirely sure if I have or not yet, but I can no longer do so if I needed to.

    Beyond that, my mind is still broken, hence my absence on this site entirely. I’m sorry, but I can’t read your posts right now without just spiraling into hell. I just needed to pass the above info along since it’s somewhat useful to the average individual here. Hopefully my brain will be fixed soon. Hopefully.

  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    13·
    4 days ago

    getting really doomer right now as it feels like society is going to collapse sooner than i’ll be able to really achieve any of my transition goals marx-doomer

  • Tomboymoder [she/her, pup/pup's]@hexbear.netEnglish
    7·
    4 days ago
    complaining about people on Twitter

    Trans girls will really be like:
    “Comparing yourself to pretty people online is so bad for your mental health, sometimes you need to just touch grass and be out in the world 🥰”

    And then you go on their profile and they are the pretty people online posting thirst traps giving everyone brainworms and pass enough to go outside.

  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    8·
    4 days ago
    CW alcoholism/current transphobic laws in US

    well shit. if all my legal documents are going to say i’m a man it might just make shopping for booze too weird for me to buy any anymore. in a weird sense it might even help my drinking

  • JohnBrownsBussy2 [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    9·
    4 days ago

    I have been trying to come out to one of my D&D group buddies for the last four days, but every time I give him a call or try to schedule one he’s unavailable. I think he’s going to be accepting, but I do want to take care of this before our session this week.

  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    6·
    4 days ago
    CW alcoholism

    i’ve actually been so nervous recently that i’ve been wanting to not drink and frankly i’m a little terrified at what that means

  • amy_jmayday [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    9·
    4 days ago

    uuugh I had so much creative energy a couple weeks ago and then This Week happened and all I’ve been able to do is lay around in bed all day catgirl-flop