• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    As a mod in other coomunities, please report these as quickly as you can. They can generally be taken care of quickly.

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    I really wish we could disable PMs from anyone but admins or mods of comms we subscribe to, like you can on reddit. There will never be a day when I want to receive a PM from anyone on Lemmy. It’s nothing personal, there’s lots of cool people here, but I’m not interested in being pen pals. I’m just here for the public forum.

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    1 day ago

    Got 4 copies of it, I don’t even know how to send a message to “all” here, didn’t think it was possible.

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        Neither of the apps I use lets me do anything beyond read the message and mark it as read. Is there a profile setting to disable that shit? I have to log into my fucking desktop just to delete the stupid phishing message.

    • CrayonRosary@lemmy.worldOP
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      21 hours ago

      Sure, but did you at least add context about why you’re messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

      Because that would be kind of normal. That’s what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

      • MutilationWave@lemmy.world
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        21 hours ago

        Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn’t seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

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          21 hours ago

          I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There’s no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

          Like, if you’re sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

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    okay lol i feel less bad for reporting this user now that i know it was widespread

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      Well you shouldn’t feel loved.

      This has nothing to do with you as a person and I would never want you to feel loved undeservedly. Because I care about you.

      (Please don’t take my overwhelming kindness in the wrong way and feel as if you’re receiving any kind of love from me. As previously stated, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with me being an excellent person.)

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        13 hours ago

        I was being sarcastic …

        It’s like saying you feel loved when a bunch of flies are swarming you or when you get pulled out of line to be screened by airport security or you get some weird reply on dumb comment you made.

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          13 hours ago

          I tried to make it as clear as possible I was riffing on your joke. I don’t believe in having to label sarcasm with “/s” because it implies the people reading it are too stupid to recognize an ironic comment.

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            10 hours ago

            Sorry my bad, I’m having a shitty weekend and I think my brain has quit on me, I’ve missed a couple of obvious things this weekend.

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              We’ve all been there. Hang tough (or veg out and treat yourself to a good nothing. Sometimes that’s the ticket for me.) Feel better!

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    Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.